A proud member of the Church Ladies' Sisterhood.

 "Yes dear, now you are a proud member of our Church Ladies' Sisterhood!" My aunt admired me looking how I go with her to the Sunday church service, wearing at one's ease my skirt, pantyhose and heels.
"Our Lord and our Faith Christian Reform Church transformed you, unruly brash young man, into good Christian young lady with a proper Christian education and good Christian values, the future biblically submissive woman and wife. Soon you will forget for ever a time when you wore pants!"

And now I really do not wear clothes of the opposite sex.

After catching me in her clothes, my aunt asked with a prayer to God that I never in my life would no longer wore clothes of the opposite sex. Her prayers were answered. And now I really do not wear clothes of the opposite sex - male! Lord turned me into a woman. And now my clothes forever are dresses, skirts and pantyhose. Strict rules of our Сhurch forbid women from wearing pants and other parts of menswear.
Now, my aunt just loves making me get modest feminine attire and go to Church with her. I can not abandon this, because I know that I can catch the heavenly punishment. I can't stop being a woman and my aunt loves watching how a defiant and rebellious young man turns into a virtuous and pious young lady.  Truthfully, I began love a life of virtuous Christian lady especially after our pastor asked me to marry him!

I like that!

My understanding of modesty grew out of my study of godly femininity and also understanding men much better.  Men think VERY differently from women and are tempted visually in ways.

I know what I'm talking, I was a man sometime.

Now, I know modesty is a gift we can give to others no matter what our shape/age may be. It is a way to show reverence for God, respect for myself, for my husband and for others around me (men and women alike).  I REALLY love adding feminine clothing to the modesty equation I feel softer, lovelier and more beautiful.  I noticed more men holding doors open for me and offering to help me. I noticed that I feel so different when I “dress the part” of being a woman.

Clothing can tell the world you are a lady and it is interesting to see that people actually do treat a woman differently depending on what she chooses to wear. Skirts, dresses and pantyhose remind me that I have the honor of being a woman and that I am thankful I don’t “wear the pants in the family.”  It is a subtle reminder to myself to savor my identity as a woman each day, to embrace my femininity, and it is a reminder to my husband that I am a delicate, beautiful, feminine woman to be cherished and adored by him.  I like that!

The 10 Virtues of the Proverbs 31 Woman.

The 10 Virtues of the Proverbs 31 Woman

1. Faith – A Virtuous Woman serves God with all of her heart, mind, and soul. She seeks His will for her life and follows His ways.
2. Marriage – A Virtuous Woman respects her husband. She does him good all the days of her life. She is trustworthy and a helpmeet.
3.  Mothering – A Virtuous Woman teaches her children the ways of her Father in heaven. She nurtures her children with the love of Christ, disciplines them with care and wisdom, and trains them in the way they should go.
4. Health – A Virtuous Woman cares for her body. She prepares healthy food for her family.
5. Service – A Virtuous Woman serves her husband, her family, her friends, and her neighbors with a gentle and loving spirit. She is charitable.
6. Finances – A Virtuous Woman seeks her husband’s approval before making purchases and spends money wisely. She is careful to purchase quality items which her family needs.
7.  Industry – A Virtuous Woman works willingly with her hands. She sings praises to God and does not grumble while completing her tasks.
8. Homemaking – A Virtuous Woman is a homemaker. She creates an inviting atmosphere of warmth and love for her family and guests. She uses hospitality to minister to those around her.
9. Time – A Virtuous Woman uses her time wisely. She works diligently to complete her daily tasks. She does not spend time dwelling on those things that do not please the Lord.
10. Beauty – A Virtuous Woman is a woman of worth and beauty. She has the inner beauty that only comes from Christ. She uses her creativity and sense of style to create beauty in her life and the lives of her loved ones.

My new life 3.

"Hi, Becky!" I greeted

"Hi Debbie! You look adorable in this brown dress! Modest and very feminine!"

"Thank you dear. Today I have to go to a rehearsal of the female choir in 06 pm. Until that time, I'm free. Could you tell me where the nearest gym, I would like a little train. I asked David, but he said that sport is not for women and went to a meeting of the city council. "

"Honey, your husband is right! Sports are not for us. In our city, women are forbidden to engage in sports and even watch sports on TV."

"Why? What's wrong if a woman will be healthy and fit?"

"My answer is that sports prepare women to be more like men. Instead of spending all that time preparing all girls as the Bible directs, sport training them to be like men so they can better compete with men in traditionally masculine roles - ie, compete with them in the workforce, in politics, in the military, and in sports. This rigorous physical and mental training tends to make women more masculine. The Bible talks about women developing a quiet and gentle spirit; woman must be soft, weak and submissive. The effort expended on sports hinders the development of wifely duties around the home; even worse is when a man has to compete against his own wife in the community. This does not mean she should be delicate like tissue paper; no, a woman should be reasonably strong, and the normal duties of life will make her that way. This is what we learn from the Proverbs 31 woman.
It shouldn’t be a secret that women’s sports promote immodest attire. But immodest dress we are prohibited. Imagine you are in a skirt, pantyhose and heels to play football... Yes dear, sport was in your old man's life!
Now, you should keep yourself away from competitive sports and spend all your time training  how to be Biblically feminine woman, wife and mother."

Always in pantyhose.

According to our city' law, the virtuous Christian lady must wear only dress or skirt, because pants are forbidden for women according to our law. The skirt length should be no higher than the middle of the knee for everyday wear and a minimum length of three inches below the knee to visit the church. Legs should be always covered with pantyhose. Some lenient husbands approve their wives going without pantyhose at home but not in public. But I am a pastor's wife. My husband lets me shoot tights only in two cases: for bathing and sleeping.

My new life 2.

"Dear Debbie, you're already a month living in our city and I think you're starting to get used to your new life. Tomorrow is your wedding. Tomorrow is one of the most important days in the life of a Christian woman. Tomorrow in the face of Lord and the people you will give the vow of allegiance and love to your husband. Remember, the vow may not be violated! You already know that divorces are prohibited.  Adultery is a grave sin. The woman, who was unfaithful to her husband, we consider as a prostitute and as a whore. Access to decent society for her will be closed forever. Therefore, we are always very careful approach to the choice of the future spouse. Almost all of our marriages for love. In your case, Lord gave you future husband. Therefore, you need to love your future husband. You meet with him every day. Tell me your impressions of him. "

"Becky, I liked him. He is very smart, interesting conversationalist, he could be my best friend ...."

"What manner of man is he? Do you like him as a Man? You said about him as a male friend. But David will take you more than a friend, he will be your husband! Do not be afraid to describe him as a man. We made between close friends talk about our grooms and husbands. This is no sin, if the conversation does not go to the coarseness and vulgarity. "

"But I somehow feel ashamed and uncomfortable to do so. After all, I was straight man and I've always liked women only ..."

"Honey, you already know that the homosexual relationship we are prohibited. Already in adolescence, we define these people (they are few) and carry with them a course of prayer therapy. It is a combination of the usual prayers and divine suggestion. The last two weeks of the course was conducted with you. Now, on a subconscious level you straight woman. How do I know this? Your panties and bras were equipped with special sensors. And if at the beginning of treatment when you viewing pictures of women you have a fixed physical and psychological attraction to them. After the end of treatment, they aren't an object of your sexual desire. For you, a woman is now only a friend and sister. Men have begun to arouse interest. In suggestion we even showed you photos of naked David. Sensors have recorded your shortness of breath, hardened nipples, and moisturize the vagina. and it is a physical female reaction to the beloved man. Of course fully accept that you will only time and multiple prayers. Now describe to me David. "

"Well, he is tall and strong ..." I start blushing.

"Then. What are his shoulders and arms?" She cheered me it.

"The broad shoulders and muscular arms ..."

"Imagine, soon you will squeeze his shoulder, and his strong arms will embrace you. Next to the man you even more feel your femininity."

"Becky, yesterday, the first time he kissed me, and when he pressed me, I felt his bulge has become very hard."

"Oh that's great! Your man wants you! I imagine it would be in your wedding night, after you give him my virginity. I think he will take you 4-5 times a night!"

"Oh dear, do not go on, I'm so ashamed!"

"Debbie, there is nothing to be ashamed of. The husband and wife must want  each other. After all, they love  and God likes it. Well my dear, I'll see you tomorrow. As your bridesmaid, I will come to help you prepare for wedding. "